“Am I Addicted To Masturbating?” – Between You & Me Part 22 – Zoella

Self-pleasure is natural. It’s healthy, it’s stressbusting and it’s an ELITE form of self-care but hey, there’s a time and place. Agreed? If the impulse to touch yourself is starting to have a negative effect on your life, your relationships, or your work, then it might be worth discussing with a mental health professional. To borrow an iconic quote from Sex Education, if you’ve been wanking all night, had four packets of crumpets and you think your clit might fall off, then it might be time to get to the bottom of what these compulsive urges are really about.

From self-pleasure to self-doubt, we’ll also be discussing how using someone else as a benchmark for your own worth is the death of joy. The comparison trap tracks us all down at some point: when our friends are making strides in their careers, settling down before us or, as is the case in this month’s BYAM, passing their driving test first time whilst some of us have yet to find a driving instruction willing to share a car with us….

It can feel like the whole world is thriving besides you but PSA: thoughts aren’t facts and comparison is the fugliest nastiest skank bitch we’ve ever met. Do not trust her. Your personal values are the only standards you need to compete with.

Elsewhere, we’ll be dishing out some of our finest advice on first ever date nerves and dealing with trust issues after an emotionally abusive relationship, so get clicking through the gallery to read the team’s replies.

Next year, we’ll be shaking up our BYAM offering, so if there’s anything you’d love to see us change up for the series, we’d love to hear from you! Get in touch – [email protected]

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